1. Shared Past
Sometimes, a shared past becomes an excuse to work things out. Yeah, you’ve been together for God knows how long and you know each other’s circle of friends and families. You’re comfortable with them. It seems much easier to deal with your ex ‘cause you already know how they are. But staying in a relationship just because you’re used to having the things that come with it, even when you’re not happy anymore, just gets tiring and more hurtful after a while.
2. It didn’t work out the first time, remember?
Why did you guys break up? What were the problems you had as a couple? Did you constantly fight over the smallest things? Think of the things that made your relationship unfixable, that you had to end it. Do you want to go back to that?
3. People don’t change easily.
Waiting for your ex to change his/her bad habits is like waiting for a miracle to happen. When you were still together, you’ve already wasted so much time. Life is brief, sweetie. Instead of waiting for something that you know might never come, why don’t you just use your time to find someone you wouldn’t want to change?
*Somehow, it make sense. But honestly, I don't know. Maybe for some, maybe not. Malay. Ewan ko..Di naman siguro applicable sa lahat. Basta, It's Complicated (daw!). Reblogged from Noeeee.
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